Restraint with a Softer Touch

Italian silk restraint for slow rituals and delicate control.

SHOP TIES

Find What Feels Good

Perfect for wherever your imagination, or partner, takes you

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Embrace Pleasure

Spread 'em like you mean it.

SHOP SPREADERS

For the Discerning Disciplinarian

Deliver the gift of the vented paddle.

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Find What What Works for You

  • 01

    Our Mission

    I created Kilter to offer women like me something the market was missing tools of pleasure that felt elegant, empowering, and entirely our own. I wanted kink to look and feel like luxury, without the clichés. Every piece is designed to be beautiful, unintimidating, and made with care, so you can explore your desires with confidence, curiosity, and control.

  • 02

    Our Vision

    I’m building a world where women can explore their desires without shame, without compromise, and without having to accept products that weren’t made for them. Kilter is here to redefine what luxury kink looks and feels like elegant, powerful, and unapologetically feminine.

  • 03

    How We Play

    We use the finest Italian leather, English suede, and polished hardware to craft tools that are as luxurious as they are lasting. Each piece is made in England by skilled makers not mass produced, but thoughtfully constructed.

    Our paddles are reinforced with laser-cut spring steel, shaped to our signature soft-edged silhouette for strength without severity. This is craftsmanship with purpose: built to be held, to be trusted.

  • 04

    Community & Consent

    No shame. No pressure. No pretending.

    We believe kink is freedom but only when it’s built on consent. This space is for everybody, every background, every boundary. We stand for mutual respect, consensual play, and the kind of trust that makes vulnerabilities beautiful.

Our Mission

Our Mission

Our Vision

Our Vision

How We Play

How We Play

Community & Consent

Community & Consent

Our Testimonials

The cuffs arrived yesterday and they’re perfect. No amount of moving/pulling dislodges the strap from the cuff. They sit really comfortably against the wrist.

G, Yorkshire

The lining is absolutely beautiful. These are nicer than both of the cuffs I have.

Niki | Double Teamed Podcast

I bought a set [of cuffs] for my partner and they're *fantastic*, can't recommend enough.